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prem
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Hey im not sure if this site has been abbonded or not, anyways i think this site should get more promotion and be seen as a place for sikh youth to talk, not just bullying.

Anyways onto my question.

I am currently dating a white girl, anything to do with girls i keep a secret from my parents. I just know they would get mad, let alone if it was a white girl.

Should i carry on dating this white girl or leave it?
Im 16 and a brit asian.
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disciple
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hi i'm a Brit too, some people might have abandonded the site or just have busier life-styles as they get older, also some people join here just to advertise other sites.

about your dating - why would you want to leave it, i've seen sikh girls dating white, blacks, chinese and muslims and even marrying them i've also seen sardars dating white girls.

i dont want to sound offensive but i personally think white girls are better than indian girls.
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Quote From : disciple October 2, 2009, 5:55 pm
hi i'm a Brit too, some people might have abandonded the site or just have busier life-styles as they get older, also some people join here just to advertise other sites.

about your dating - why would you want to leave it, i've seen sikh girls dating white, blacks, chinese and muslims and even marrying them i've also seen sardars dating white girls.

i dont want to sound offensive but i personally think white girls are better than indian girls.


Wow first response ive heard like that lol.
How come you think white girls are better?
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disciple
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i have a few relatives as teachers/lecturers, they tell me that the worst students are punjabi girls - they're not interested in studying but just mess with the boys.

just look at india it has one of the highest number of people with aids - and you know why that is. not all indian girls are like that but most of them want to have as many boyfriends as possible before getting married, and if they've had lots of boyfriends then they've got a higher chance of meeting an old flame and having a quick fling with them after marriage because i've seen it happen many times.

also the aunties who tell their husbands not to socialise with his family which causes problems in the family - somebody told me that the sikhs have a higher divorce rate than any other religion, i don't know wether thats true or not but i woudn't be surprised
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again thats my opinion on u.k. indian girls - sorry if i offended anyone
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amanbagga
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I think the issue is not about Indian vs. White, but about being honest with your parents. If you really like this girl and want to continue dating her, I wouldn't recommend doing it behind your parents' backs. Be honest with them and let them know how you feel. Though they may get mad, don't assume the worst. Parents can surprise you. I can tell you from my dating experience they were more open than I anticipated. Talk this through with your parents - they usually do have your best interest at heart.
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mysterygirl96
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It is ur religion and u should ot be dating in he first place and that with a white girl? That is totally out of control

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Quote From : disciple October 3, 2009, 2:02 pm
i have a few relatives as teachers/lecturers, they tell me that the worst students are punjabi girls - they're not interested in studying but just mess with the boys.

just look at india it has one of the highest number of people with aids - and you know why that is. not all indian girls are like that but most of them want to have as many boyfriends as possible before getting married, and if they've had lots of boyfriends then they've got a higher chance of meeting an old flame and having a quick fling with them after marriage because i've seen it happen many times.

also the aunties who tell their husbands not to socialise with his family which causes problems in the family - somebody told me that the sikhs have a higher divorce rate than any other religion, i don't know wether thats true or not but i woudn't be surprised
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again thats my opinion on u.k. indian girls - sorry if i offended anyone


Im sorry to say this but u r wrong there are loads of girls like me and im a respectable one who is religious and desnt have anythong to do with boys u shouldnt say things like that and it can offend respectable girls like me

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disciple
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oh i'm really sorry but good girls like you are very rare, keep it up
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Quote From : mysterygirl96 October 27, 2009, 5:29 pm
It is ur religion and u should ot be dating in he first place and that with a white girl? That is totally out of control


so it seem o.k. if girls date white/black/muslim boys then is it?
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ssg789
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This is the strangest discussion on Khalsa Kids to date. haha guys.
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